Sunday, October 26, 2014

Are you always  Bored every time?


 You wake up and you know it’s going to be another boring Sunday. Your friends are all busy and away, so you can’t invite them over, and you don’t have much money because it’s  month so even if they were around you couldn’t do anything fun like go out.

You’re not dating anyone because frankly, you’re not over your ex, even though he was a bit of a bastard and thbastardof looking for someone new on a dating site feels you with dread right now, though maybe in a few months you will be ready to go down that path. You’ve miraculously done all your chores, including all your food shopping and laundry.

You done all your work, even the work you had to bring home with you. You have called your Mum and checked that your Grandma is still ok. You are not religious and so you will not be attending a religious building today.You have to daythat requires doing immediately. This feeling doesn’t fill you with elation. It fills you with dread, because now you have an entire day stretching before you with nothing to fill it.

Do not despair! You can still have a relatively interesting Sunday, even without money, sex or friends. This is what I’m trying to convince myself of anyway. So here is my list of things you can do to make your boring Sunday more bearable.

 Eat a lavish breakfast or brunch.
Cook something you wouldn’t have time to cook on a weekday morning. Go all out, make coffee in a french press (if you have one – I actually prefer instant coffee) have some toast, spread out your newspaper like you own the place, grab a book, grab a kindle or whatever else you have to read to hand and read slowly. Don’t rush, savour your brsavourand pretend you’re in a cafe. This works for me anyway.

 Wear something out of the box
Wear something a bit weird or avant garde. Wear something that makes you smile or feel uplifted. Wear your prom dress. Wear a snow suit. Whatever you own that makes you feel interesting or sexy or cheerful. Wear that. I am wearing my cherry pink jeggings today and they are honestly making me feel more upbeat, even though it’s January.

 Take an out door adventure
If you spend all day inside when you feel the onslaught of boredom, you will inevitably be more bored. You see your walls all the time. Go and look at something that isn’t your wall. I mean it. I don’t care if there is a gale outside. Gales are interesting. Go outside.

 Read some books
Even if you don’t particularly like reading, libraries are still fun places. You can stare at hot nerds [always fun], educate yourself about something obscure and pointless, or you can lose yourself for hours in the travel section and just look at pretty pictures for a few hours. Libraries were what people did pre – internet. Go on, time travel.

Send a text message to someone
Even if it’s just to your Mum, she’ll appreciate it. Unless it’s an angry text. In which case she won’t. Don’t send an angry text. Please.

Have a nostalgia fest
I lost two days of my life to a website about being a 90s kid. Remembering your childhood can be enormously entertaining.

Care for a pet
Borrow your neighbour’s cat for a couple of hours. Go to your local pound or animal charity. It’s hard to feel lonely or bored around furry things.

 Plan and save some coin
Feeling like embacking on a vacation? List all the ways you can save money for it and try to be as ingenious as you can.

Have a clear out
On the other note. You can decide to clear some of your faded T-shirt aand old jean out to the trash, do some laundry and rearrange your wordrop, and tidy up your shoes

On the flip side, here’s a much shorter list of how not to cope with a boring Sunday.


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