MY DOP BIRTHDAY

At  sun down yesterday, i visited a friend and his wife for his birthday, Here in abuja , He had close friends invited for a small house party,
  I got a call from his bro on  the surprise package we planned  for the celebrant earlier on, instantly I wisked my Friend who happens to be with me at that moment. Quickly  branch for a clean hair cut, cleaned up nicely while smelling nice, you know as per bachelor concern lolzz , we proceeded to the celebrant house in which, we all gathered together, jist, crack hilarious jokes and made fun of each other as we laugh hysterically at each others comments while re-bonding the lost time work and stress of trying to earn a spot in the world of comfortable life in Nigeria .

Most often we hope to celebrate our birthdays in grand style, like the 'owanbe' the happening young people in town. while some just want a great time out with good friends.

Basically this questions pops to my mind

what is your perception of a cool birthday?,
 or what is your ideal birthday bash?.
Are you celebrating to show off?
 or just for the fun of it, or just to make sure you have a nice time on your birthday.

We all have different reasons to which makes us want to celebrate our birthday in the way we choose, but in all, what I think about the concept of celebration is  the end result, that really count Alot.

 At the end of the party, you check mate your self by  assessing your feelings  with this questions,

How you feel before and after the celebration,
Are you satisfied with what you did or just flat down thought of regret?

Well I say to my friends let just do it, the major hindrances for young people in nigeria is cash.
 Bro/sis let be honest with our self Majority of youth in nigeria don't even consider birthdays to be celebrated,

Because is either they are  occupied with chasing one job vacancies or just down with no cash and job or just hoping for a brighter future. "in pursuit of happiness".

I always say to my friends that the the goal is
not  about  money but to be able to live life the way we want and plan it our own way.

My best Friend always say to me, I want to have a life were I will be able to travel the world, visit any country I like, go for vacation at my convenient time.

In all, I see a reason why you should keep your mind sane and happy in all times, so as to  foster a happy relationship and social life especially in this our modern generation were BBM, social media has taken over physical socialisation between people and coupled with stress and struggle to keep up daily habit.

My brother /sister always keep your special day interesting, celebrate with joy in your heart , invite a good friend over and blast the jist out of your socket and let loose and enjoy life